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“Adolescence”: Streaming Drama, Real-Life Trauma and Family Tragedy

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Dean Harrison (Counselling Psychologist / Managing Director - iflow Psychology) -


Psychologist in Sydney, Australia | Therapist Sydney | Teen Mental Health


If you’ve seen the new series Adolescence, you’ve probably spent equal amounts of time glued to the screen and reaching for a stress ball. No spoilers here—but prepare yourself for teenage chaos, questionable choices, and that creeping sense of “Is this what my kid’s going through?!”


Adolescence is not your average coming-of-age drama. It’s a raw, unsettling, and brilliantly crafted portrayal of what it means to be young in a hyperconnected, emotionally chaotic world. It grips you from the first episode—not just because it’s binge-worthy, but because it’s disturbingly relatable.

Discarded Cookie Monster toy lying on the ground, symbolising lost childhood innocence and the emotional impact of adolescence. The image evokes themes of vulnerability, change, and the tragedy of growing up too soon.

Parenting Adolescence in the Digital Jungle

Let’s be honest—keeping a teenager safe online is like trying to store sand in a colander. You can’t be everywhere, all the time, and neither should you be. But the cyber world adds a terrifying new layer to adolescence: one where bullying isn’t confined to the schoolyard and predators aren’t limited to strangers.


As the series shows, the internet is both playground and battleground. It’s a space where identity is forged and fractured, where connection coexists with crushing loneliness. Teenagers may be tech-savvy, but emotionally, they’re still kids. And developmentally? Still under construction.


Isolation: The Silent Saboteur

Despite all the digital "friends" and TikTok dances, many teens are deeply isolated. Adolescence lays bare the vulnerability of teenagers who feel unseen, unheard, and unsupported. We know from research that isolation during adolescence is a significant risk factor for depression, anxiety, and even self-harm. It’s not enough to know your child’s screen time—you need to know their headspace.


Reasons for Children's Isolation

 There are several factors that can contribute to children feeling isolated:

  • Social Dynamics: As children grow, they often seek to establish their own identities, which can lead to a shift in social dynamics. They may feel pressure to fit in with peers, leading to feelings of isolation if they struggle to form connections.

  • Academic and Extracurricular Pressures: The demands of schoolwork and extracurricular activities can leave children feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from their family and friends.

  • Technology and Social Media: Increased use of technology can lead to superficial interactions, making it harder for kids to build meaningful relationships and contributing to feelings of loneliness.

  • Emotional and Mental Health Issues: Anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges can lead to withdrawal from social situations and a sense of isolation.


Challenges for Parents

 As children differentiate from their families and begin to seek influence from peers, parents may face several challenges:

  • Communication Barriers: As children grow older, they may become less communicative with their parents, making it difficult for parents to understand their feelings and experiences.

  • Fear of Judgment: Children may fear being judged or misunderstood by their parents, leading them to keep their struggles to themselves.

  • Changing Relationships: The shift from a parent-child dynamic to a more peer-oriented perspective can create tension, as parents may feel sidelined or less influential in their child's life.

  • Limited Parenting Skills: Parents may feel unequipped to handle the complex emotional and social issues their children face as they grow, leading to feelings of helplessness.


Remember, regular quality time with your kids matters.


Boys, Brains, and Big Feelings

Let’s talk testosterone. The show brilliantly captures the messy emotional undercurrent many adolescent boys experience—raging hormones, an awakening sex drive, and a desperate attempt to build a sense of self in a world that rarely encourages vulnerability.


Adolescent males are particularly at risk for emotional dysregulation. Why? Because that important part of the brain called the frontal lobe—responsible for impulse control, empathy, and long-term planning—is still a work in progress. It doesn’t fully mature until around age 24. Until then? Parents are their kids’ external frontal lobes—guiding, buffering, and scaffolding emotional responses.


Violence Begets Violence: A Psychological Truth

The series starkly reminds us that violence doesn’t come from nowhere. It often stems from a place of deep pain, neglect, or repeated exposure to harm. Bullying, in particular, is shown not as petty drama but for what it truly is: a toxic form of psychological violence. It scars. It festers. And in some cases, it explodes.


Early intervention is key. Schools and parents must recognise that bullying is not character-building—it’s soul-eroding.


Teenagers Aren’t Just Bigger Kids

Here’s where many well-meaning adults go wrong: teenagers are not just children with mood swings. They require a different kind of parenting—one that shifts from control to collaboration, from rules to relationships, from lecturing to listening.


Teaching adolescents to self-manage, rather than micromanaging them, is the foundation of helping them transition into responsible, emotionally intelligent adults.


The Chilling Profile: When Traits Turn Concerning

Without spoiling it, one character in Adolescence displays several early traits commonly associated with psychopathy:

  • Lack of remorse or empathy

  • Pathological lying and deceit

  • Manipulative behaviour

  • Calm control during high-stakes interviews


While these are deeply concerning behaviours, it is unethical and inappropriate to diagnose personality disorders in adolescents. Personality is still developing, and what may appear as fixed traits can shift with appropriate intervention.


That said, research indicates that genetic predispositions, especially when coupled with trauma or abuse, can increase the likelihood of antisocial behaviour patterns. The key? Early recognition, strong boundaries, and professional support.


Modern Fatherhood: A Whole New Playbook

Another powerful theme Adolescence taps into is the modern father’s dilemma. Many men grew up with fathers who disciplined with silence or physical punishment, who provided but didn’t nurture. Now, fathers are expected to:

  • Share emotional and household responsibilities

  • Be involved, present, and emotionally attuned

  • Apologise, listen, validate, and… fold laundry?!


While this evolution is positive, it’s also a steep learning curve, especially for men who never had emotionally present role models. The pressure to be both strong and soft, assertive and empathetic, protector and nurturer, can feel impossible to balance.


That’s why therapy is just as vital for dads. It provides a space to unpack generational trauma and redefine fatherhood—not just for them, but for their children.


The Bottom Line: We All Need Support

Adolescence is a fictional series, but its lessons are very real. It reminds us that behind every outburst, withdrawal, or risky decision is a teen who’s still figuring out life—and they need us.

  • Parents need to be present, patient, and proactive.

  • Schools must take bullying seriously and respond swiftly.

  • Young people must be empowered to seek help early.

  • Fathers need space and support to parent differently—and better.


When things get tough, professional support from a psychologist can make all the difference. Therapy isn’t just for crises—it’s for growth, insight, and support through life's most turbulent years.


The Role of Independent Professionals

 Engaging with an independent professional, such as a psychologist, can provide valuable support for both children and parents:

  • Objective Perspective: A psychologist can offer strictly confidential (with ethical limits), unbiased, non-judgmental understanding, helping children articulate their feelings and experiences in a safe environment.

  • Skill Development: Professionals can teach coping strategies and social skills building resiliency to empower children to build connections and navigate their emotions more effectively.

  • Parental Support: Parents can benefit from guidance on how to communicate and connect with their children during these challenging times, enhancing family dynamics.

  • Encouraging Growth: Therapy can facilitate personal growth and insight, equipping children with the tools they need to thrive in their social environments.


At iflow Psychology, we understand the complexity of adolescence because we see it every day. We’re here to support teenagers, parents, and families through all the highs, lows, and hormonal hurricanes.


Looking for support in navigating adolescence? Visit iflow Psychology in Gladesville, Sydney. We are experienced Sydney psychologists providing culturally sensitive psychology services.


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Navigating adolescence — whether you're living it or parenting through it — can feel overwhelming, confusing, and at times, isolating. But you don't have to do it alone.


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